Tune out the media and tune in to your BBC~your body’s broadcasting corp

The media erodes women’s self esteem.
Teenage girls feel they have to be thin like the women they see on tv, movies, and magazines to be attractive. These two articles illustrate the media’s power to influence our self esteem.

The best way for us to counter these effects
is to start prioritizing our own body’s news. It’s time to tune out the media & tune into your own media..your Wild Body Broadcasting Corporation. You do this by noticing the internal “broadcasts” your body sends you. Tune in the good news by listening and attending to your body’s messages, by nurturing yourself. If we want our children to feel better about themselves, we need to let them know by our example how important the news from their WBBC is. You do this by learning how to tune into your own. You do this by unlearning societal habits of worshiping the opinions of others; getting stuck in your head; trying to run the body; ignoring what your body is feeling & checking out of your body. The only way to teach this to future generations is for us to learn it ourselves.  By our actions we can teach our children to value themselves.

Often we tune out our WBBC because we are taught to ignore it, that it isn’t important, & because we don’t know what to do with the information.  When I first tuned into mine, I was flooded with painful messages. It was overwhelming. I had been ignoring it for 27 years & it had a lot to say! My body was in pain & I had to learn how to feel safe enough to listen & learn what to actually do with all the information. It took years of stumbling & searching through books, therapy, education & personal experience to figure out that the answers were being broadcasted from my body.

When I figured out how to listen to my WBBC, I learned what my body was asking for and how to nurture myself. Within my body I discovered all the answers, wisdom, healing, confidence & self love I was seeking. I was able to transform my WBBC from pain & worrying about what others thought, to a station filled with positive joyful broadcasts. Now 12 years later, I feel great about my body and don’t feel pressured to conform to media expectations. I feel more attractive now at 40 then I ever did at 20. I know that being attractive, feeling sexy doesn’t depend on me wearing the right shoes, or having the perfect look!

My Wild Body Broadcasting Corporation is my number one station. All I have to do is tune in to feel beautiful & loveable.

Here at Be Wild Woman I love empowering women to tune into their WBBC and feel great about themselves! Tune in today, discover your body’s wild wisdom, and pass it on… The only way to teach this to future generations is for us to learn it ourselves. By our actions we can teach our children to value themselves.

American teen girls feel pressure to be thin

Mon Feb 1, 2010 1:18pm EST

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NEW YORK (Reuters Life!) – Almost nine in 10 American teenage girls say they feel pressured by the fashion and media industries to be skinny and that an unrealistic, unattainable image of beauty has been created, a poll showed on Monday.

The online survey of 1,000 girls aged between 13 and 17 for the Girl Scouts of the USA found that three quarters said they would be more likely to buy clothes that they see on real-size models than on women who are skinny.

But three out of four girls said that fashion is “really important” to them.

“The fashion industry remains a powerful influence on girls and the way they view themselves and their bodies,” said Kimberlee Salmond, senior researchers at the Girl Scout Research Institute.

“Teenage girls take cues about how they should look from models they see in fashion magazines and on TV and it is something that they struggle to reconcile with when they look at themselves in the mirror,” she said.

More than 80 percent of teen girls said they would rather see natural photos of models rather than pictures that had been digitally altered or enhanced.

Other top influences on body perceptions, aside from celebrities and models, are peers, friends and parents, the poll showed.

One in three girls said they have starved themselves or refused to eat in an effort to lose weight, while almost half said they knew someone their age who has forced themselves to throw up after eating. More than a third said they know someone who has been diagnosed with an eating disorder.

The survey was conducted by youth research firm Tru.

(Reporting by Michelle Nichols; Editing by Patricia Reaney)

http://uk.reuters.com/article/idUKTRE6104Q420100201

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Media’s Effect On Girls: Body Image And Gender Identity

Did you know?

During childhood, adolescence, media exposure is part of a constellation of sociocultural factors that promote a thinness schema for girls and the muscularity schema for boys (Harrison & Hefner, 2006; Smolak & Levine, 1996; Thompson et al., 1999).

A child’s body image develops as the result of many influences:

  • A newborn begins immediately to explore what her body feels like and can do. This process continues her whole life.
  • A child’s body image is influenced by how people around her react to her body and how she looks.
  • A pre-adolescent becomes increasingly aware of what society’s standards are for the “ideal body.”

Media’s Effect on Body Image

The popular media (television, movies, magazines, etc.) have, since World War II, increasingly held up a thinner and thinner body (and now ever more physically fit) image as the ideal for women. The ideal man is also presented as trim, but muscular.

  • Rumble, Cash, and Nashville (2000; cited in Klein & Shiffman, 2006) found that the schematic association of attractiveness and thinness with goodness was present in over 100 female characters appearing in 23 Walt Disney animated films (cel cartoons) produced over a 60-year period.
  • Fouts and Burggraf (1999, 2000) observed that thin female characters in television situation comedies were more likely than heavier female characters to be praised by male characters, and less likely to be insulted by male characters in ways deliberately tied to evocation of “canned” and supportive audience laughter.
  • Since the 1980s magazines have increasingly depicted the male body in a state of objectified undress, such that a significant focus for the camera and viewer is raw, exposed (“chiseled” or “ripped”) muscularity (Halliwell, Dittmar, & Orsborn, 2007; Pope et al., 2000).
  • Field et al. (1999) reported that the majority of nearly 550 working class adolescent girls were dissatisfied with their weight and shape. Almost 70% of the sample stated that pictures in magazines influence their conception of the “perfect” body shape, and over 45% indicated that those images motivated them to lose weight. Further, adolescent girls who were more frequent readers of women’s magazines were more likely to report being influenced to think about the perfect body, to be dissatisfied with their own body, to want to lose weight, and to diet.
  • Teen-age girls who viewed commercials depicting women who modeled the unrealistically thin-ideal type of beauty caused adolescent girls to feel less confident, more angry and more dissatisfied with their weight and appearance (Hargreaves, 2002).
  • In a study on fifth graders, 10 year old girls and boys told researchers they were dissatisfied with their own bodies after watching a music video by Britney Spears or a clip from the TV show “Friends” (Mundell, 2002).
  • In another recent study on media’s impact on adolescent body dissatisfaction, two researchers found that:
    1. Teens who watched soaps and TV shows that emphasized the ideal body typed reported higher sense of body dissatisfaction. This was also true for girls who watched music videos.
    2. Reading magazines for teen girls or women also correlated with body dissatisfaction for girls.
    3. Identification with television stars (for girls and boys), and models (girls) or athletes (boys), positively correlated with body dissatisfaction (Hofschire & Greenberg, 2002).

Media’s Effect on Gender Identity

Many children watch between two and four hours of television per day. The presence or absence of role models, how women and men, girls and boys are presented, and what activities they participate in on the screen powerfully affect how girls and boys view their role in the world. Studies looking at cartoons, regular television, and commercials show that although many changes have occurred and girls, in particular have a wider range of role models, for girls “how they look” is more important than “what they do.”

  • In a 1997 study designed to study how children described the roles of cartoon characters, children (ages four to nine) “perceived most cartoon characters in stereotypical ways: boys were violent and active and girls were domestic, interested in boys, and concerned with appearances” (Thompson, 1997).
  • In another study, three weeks of Saturday morning toy commercials were analyzed. Results found that:
    1. 50% of the commercials aimed at girls spoke about physical attractiveness, while none of the commercials aimed at boys referenced appearance.
    2. Boys acted aggressively in 50% of the commercials aimed at them, while none of the girls behaved aggressively.
    3. With regard to work roles, no boys had unpaid labor roles, and girls were mainly shown in traditional female jobs or roles of unpaid labor (Sobieraj, 1996).
  • Dr. Nancy Signorielli, Professor of Communications at the University of Delaware examined the types of media most often viewed by adolescent girls: television, commercials, films, music videos, magazines and advertisements. While the study did find positive role models of women and girls using their intelligence and acting independently, the media also presented an overwhelming message that girls and women were more concerned with romance and dating (and it follows how they look), while men focus on their occupations (Signorielli, 1997).

    http://www.mediafamily.org/facts/facts_mediaeffect.shtml

we learned, chakracized, danced… we loved feeling sexy!

Sending a big thanks to all of you who made Love Feeling Sexy a fun success!

We learned, we Chakracized, we danced, we love feeling sexy!
Here’s a link to pictures…enjoy!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/17414056@N00/sets/72157623350393708/

we’ll do it again soon.
Wild Women save the date Sunday Feb 28th 4-8pm
Love Feeling Sexy~ just for the girls

join us for
a Wild Wombing Support Circle followed by Be Wild Creative Fun, Potluck & Dancing!

more details coming soon!
wild blissings
Kiana Love

What part of your body do you love and why?

I invite you to take a moment to look in the mirror and embrace what you see.  Perhaps you could start with one part of you that brings you pride or that you would like to commit to loving.

Just saw a great article in Shape’s February Magazine, called “How I learned to love my body”. Six women share what they love about their body and why.  I especially liked how the body parts they used weren’t what our culture would deem, “perfect” and perfectly  illustrated how we can learn to love and embrace ourselves just the way we are.

For each there’s a picture and a quote..here’s a few of their quotes..

“when I look at the scars on my belly, I know I can handle anything life throws me”
Maggie Vanbuskirik,25

“While they may never be featured in an ad for lotions or rings my hands have enabled me to help, soothe, and calm the people I love” Eva Bridget, 48

When I read the one about the belly it reminded me of how I used to extremely self conscious about my stretch marks.  Then I had a lover tell me that they were a beautiful natural tattoo.  Since then I think of them as the stripes that I earned giving birth to my son and a badge of all the love I have for him.  Here’s my pic

I invite you to share yours here!

A Peek at Women’s Anatomy by Sheri Winston

I’m so excited that Sheri Winston is coming back to teach Women’s Anatomy of Arousal. This should be a 101 required class for all women and men who love to arouse women She’s coming to kick off our new. Love Feeling Sexy Event!

A Peek at Women’s Anatomy of Arousal

by Sheri Winston, CNM, RN, BSN, LMT

What’s Really Down There May Surprise You!

Being an educated person, you probably think you have a pretty good understanding of both models of the standard sexual equipment, whichever version you happen to own or like to visit. It may surprise you to know that our accepted cultural ideas and images of genitals are missing a lot of really good stuff.

What’s Missing From This Picture?

Believe it or not, the majority of contemporary books and illustrations of female genital anatomy leave out most of the equipment responsible for arousal and orgasm. When these specialized sexual structures are omitted from the images and text, they’re also absent from our mental model. This limits your ability to access your full sexual potential—it’s kind of like a psychological chastity belt. There is much more to women’s pleasure than the clitoris, and there’s more to the clitoris than meets the eye. This ultra-sensitive sweet button is only the tip of the female volcano, just one component of a whole network of erogenous structures. Women have an interlocking set of sexual pleasure parts, most of which are unknown or misunderstood. In fact, women have just as much erotic equipment in their bodies as men do. That’s right. The female apparatus is equivalent in size to that of the male—it’s just not as obvious. Pound for pound, inch for inch, women have the same amount of the good stuff as guys.

Playing the Whole Instrument

Since we don’t know about all of these yummy parts, we’re operating with a limited mental model. It’s as if we’ve been trying to play the piano and make beautiful music but are only aware of a quarter of the keys. With most of the keyboard missing, we can still make lovely music, but the range is restricted. When we discover the complete network of structures and understand how the connected system works together, it’s as if we now know where all the keys are (plus the foot pedals!). Then we can learn how to fully play our instrument and make a much wider, more expansive range of music. Some songs that seemed well outside our ability now become possible. We may not be able to play a Mozart sonata or have fifteen-minute orgasms right away, but we can see that it’s possible to get there. It’s no wonder so many women face challenges in accessing their full arousal and becoming orgasmically proficient. They haven’t been using their whole instrument! When we don’t know what’s there, we don’t know how to thoroughly play with it and neither do our partners, whether they’re male or female. And of course we can’t teach them, if we don’t know ourselves. When your mental model is congruent with your experience, the impact can be enormous. Often, it’s only in retrospect that you see what you were missing before. The power of having a mind map that matches your reality and accurately reflects your body and its abilities can’t be overstated—your sex life becomes full of new understandings of who you are and how you operate, a luscious tapestry of “Aha!” and “Oh my god!” moments. For women to reach their full sexual potential, they need to discover this network of erogenous circuits. When that whole system is fully utilized, it becomes considerably easier for women to expand their arousal, access amazing orgasmic states and discover their deep and wondrous wildness. When you know all your parts and give them the attention they so richly deserve, your music can become a powerful symphony of ecstasy.

Your Invited to Love Feeling Sexy ~With Sexpert Sheri Winston

Kiana Love & Sheri Winston invite you to

Love Feeling Sexy


We’re bringing Be Wild Coed Parties back again! with Sexpert Sheri Winston!
Wild Women & Men welcome to both respect & delight in each others sexiness in a safe, fun space.  We are delighted to welcome back one of our favorite presenters with a new book and a revamped Women’s Anatomy of Arousal Featuring a scintillating power point presentation.  Ohh La La!

This playshop should be required for all women and anyone who wants to arouse women.

We’re doing a raffle to raise money to help Haiti recover from the earthquake.  My husband Billy helped build St. Josephs Home for Boys & now its been devastated.  Lets have a party, feel sexy & raise $ to help  boys in Haiti.  For more info or to donate now go to  Hearts with Haiti


Sunday, January 31st @ Brooklyn Urban Sanctuary 778 Bergen

~Playlist~
2-5p
Women’s Anatomy of Arousal with Sheri Winston
5-9p
Love Feeling Sexy Party
Pillow Talk with Sheri & Friends~ 5:15-6pm
Chakra Connect Puja with Kiana Love ~6:00-6:45
followed by
*Potluck * Dance * Sexy Dress-Up * Sensory Delight*

**Special raffle for Heart with Haiti St. Josephs Home for Boys **

Details

Women’s Secret Anatomy of Arousal
With Wholistic Sexuality & Intimate Arts Teacher
Sheri Winston CNN, RN ,BSN, LMT

Did you know that women have as much erectile equipment as men? Find out what’s really down there & how to make it work beyond your wildest dreams!

its time for you to….
transform your sex life
reach your full pleasure potential
Finally understand feminine sexuality
Learn the secrets of female ejaculation

Based on her exciting new book
Women’s Anatomy of Arousal – Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure
Pre-registration required for Anatomy of Arousal
workshop & party $25-$50 sliding scale

Love Feeling Sexy Party~

Here you will find that sexiness originates in feeling comfortable and pleasurable on the inside and radiates out.

we recommend you come to the whole event for maximum fun!
and you can opt to just come to the party
$15 at the door ($5 goes to Hearts with Haiti)

This is a CLOTHES-ON, NO SEXUAL CONTACT EVENT

To register contact Kiana 917 453-3663 /kakini@gmail.com

Wild Women Create Peace in the Garden

I’m so excited about our peace celebration! We need you to make it wild.

Our story ended up on yahoo buzz. Please vote for us & spread the word..

You can also hear more on WHCR 90.3 Monday morning. I’m going to be a guest on Ieshe Seku’s Harlem Live radio show talking about our International UN Peace Day event on Sept 20th.

Join us on Sept 20th for art, music, yoga, peace chants, herbal ale and flu preventatives, bbq, healthy herbal treats, hip hop, rose petal pool, massage, tarot, face painting and more. We’re also celebrating peace humanitarian Amma’s bday.

We are also looking for art/creative projects that inspire peace to showcase, volunteers, photographers, and your help in spreading the word so people can enjoy it. If you have an idea/costume/something you want to do to help please let us know.

thanks & blissings
Kiana Love
founder of The Kakini Healing Center and Be Wild Woman

Here’s our Press Release!
Do you have any lists or media connections? friends you can invite? Please help spread the word!!

Wild Women Create Peace in the Garden

On Sunday September 20th, Wild Women Create Peace & Healing in the Garden with Herbs, Chants & Hip Hop. World Renowned Yogi Shiva Rae & Hugging Saint Amma have inspired a Brooklyn community UN Peace Day event.

New York, NY, September 11, 2009 –(PR.com)– The Kakini Healing Center & Be Wild Woman, have joined with Arts for Arts, & The Walt Shamel Community Garden for the Global Mala Project to create peace in Brooklyn. Peace and Healing in the Garden is an all day community event bringing people together with music, food, yoga, peace chants, herbal remedies, hip hop, art, & more. Yogi Shiva Rae, the catalyst for the Global Mala Project, seeks to unite & form “a mala (Sanskrit: necklace or garland) around the earth” through community service, fundraisers, and collective practices. This is based on the sacred cycle of 108 at the Fall Equinox to further the efforts of the UN International Peace Day.

After their wildly successful “Wild Wombing Art Exhibit and Herb Walk” at The Annual Art on Dean show at the Walt Shamel Community Garden on August 22nd, Be Wild Woman planned a women’s healing event to celebrate the harvest, share herbal remedies with herbs from the garden, and raise funds to help women to “womb” and reclaim their creative power. Kiana Love, founder of The Kakini Healing Center & Be Wild Woman organized Peace and Healing in the Garden when Kiana realized how closely it resonated with her vision of Be Wild Woman and its mission of helping women to reclaim their creative power. “Wombing” -a term coined by Kiana to redefine womb as an action as well as a place-means creating and cultivating safety in one’s body, life, and community. Kiana has experienced personally and witnessed among others through her healing practice how essential it is to establish a safe space in order for women to be able to heal and cultivate relationship with their innate wildness.

Peace and Healing in the Garden also resonated with the message of her spiritual teacher Saint Amma, recipient of the Gandhi-King Award for Non-violence. When Amma addressed the UN she said “When we work together as a global family, not merely belonging to a particular race, religion or nation, peace and happiness will once again prevail on this earth”. With Amma’s birthday, the The UN International Peace Day & The Fall Equinox all converging around this weekend, it was the perfect time to bring Peace & Healing in the Garden to Brooklyn.

Arts for Arts has also joined in the peace efforts within Gardens Series bringing innovative music into community gardens throughout NYC this month. The Kakini Healing Center will start the day with prayers, chants, yoga, stretching and dancing to create peace in the body and in the world. Then Be Wild Woman will share herbal remedies to stave off the plague. After a Fall Equinox invocation Arts for Arts will kick off music from its grassroots coalition of musical artists. Throughout the afternoon there will be healing art & crafts to see & create, healthy herbal delights, information on affordable housing, health care, and ways to give back to your community. There will also be hip-hop for kids, a rose petal pool, comfort food, bbq & bake sale by Walt Shamel gardeners.

Kiana says that “the way to create peace in the world is the start at home, in our hearts and in our communities, from there it is only natural to reach out spread the peace we feel inside”. Donations and proceeds will go to support the Mushana Global Mala Project, The Be Wild Woman Wombing Project, and The Walt Shamel Community Garden.

PROGRAM
Sunday, September 9, 2009 11a.m. to 5 p.m.

11am-1pm Global Mala Peace Equinox
Amma mantra & healing meditation in honor of Amma’s Birthday
Chakracize for Peace – chakra peace chant & chakra movement stretch, dance, chant, sing, laugh for peace in your body and in our world

1-2pm Be Wild Woman Herbal Remedies to Keep the Doctor Away
*Herbal Ale, Wine, Vinegar, & Hot Cayenne..to stave off the plague and bring back passion. *Self-guided healing herb garden walk

2-5pm Art for Arts in Gardens
Fall Equinox Invocation by Kiana Love
Musical Performances include: Matt Plummer Group, Jeremy Young, Sabir Mateen
Dance by Global Kids Peace Hip Hop, Carl Knight, MJ Donahue & Boom

*Walt Shamel Community Garden BBQ & Bake Sale
~ comfort foods and delectable delights from our community gardeners!

*Be Wild Woman Wombing Oasis
~ gallery of art, healing art to make, make your own peace journal, learn about be wild woman’s healing peace efforts, herbal culinary treats

*Be Wild Kid’s Station
peace crafting for kids, recyclable art, hip hop, peace talk

*Peaceful healing stations
~ Tarot, Chair Massage, Face Painting, Rose petal pool

*Mushana Global Mala Gratitude Beads handcrafted by Ugandan widows & children 100% recyclable materials

Where: Walt Shamel Garden | 1095 Dean Street btwn Bedford and Franklin

for more information, to volunteer, and or donate contact Kiana Love

917 453 3663 kakini@gmail.com www.KakiniHealth.com

Healing the Womb, Part 4 ~ Womb Visions

It’s been six months since a dozen women gathered in a cozy room on the Upper West Side to embark on a journey of Healing the Womb. That first evening, we each shared our personal experiences with wounds of the womb, each story a conscious reconstruction of thoughts, feelings, memories, struggles—things that are not always easy to put into words but that had to be in order to communicate what we had been through. And even though the translation would never be perfect, we knew that this process was powerful, that words have power and the sound of our voices expressing our truth created a deeper resonance between us. We told our stories. We listened.

Then we learned to listen to ourselves, to our bodies, which spoke not with words, but with sensations and feelings. We delved deep into our bodies, opening a channel of dialogue, learning to trust our intuition, to trust in the truth of that nonverbal internal process. Thus did we begin to reclaim and cultivate safety—and realize that we knew exactly what that felt like in the womb, before birth, before we had a language to consciously understand and translate it.

We enveloped ourselves in that feeling of safety, clearing the clutter and setting the boundaries of our safe space. There was “my space” and “your space” and we asserted that distinction both with and without words—discovering the underlying energetic pattern, rediscovering that the power of invitation was ours alone. We practiced holding that safe space for ourselves, then holding space for others—another mode of nonverbal communication that allows expression & healing to happen.

And then we opened to the flow of creativity to make the invisible womb visible. On the last day of our journey as a group, we ventured within to see what our wombs looked like. Using simple tools (crayons, markers, glitter, stickers, and paper), we visualized our wombs through artistic expression.

Visualization has never been easy for me—my dreams are rarely very vivid and I mostly tend towards words rather than images in my waking life. But when I stopped trying to see and allowed my body to show me, the feelings and sensations then manifested into colors, forms, and textures, and continued to manifest throughout the process of drawing, flowing through my hands rather than my eyes.

It is said that the hands are extensions of the heart. We indeed had to look at our wombs through the lens of the heart, with compassion and curiosity, just as a child would—and using art absolutely speaks to that younger, imaginative, freer aspect of ourselves.

At the Healing the Womb benefit workshop held on February 8th, Kiana had guided participants in a meditation that visualized the heart and womb as roses. We were to take notice of all the different qualities of our roses—color, size, shape, whether they were in bloom or wilting, what kind of environment they were in, etc. My womb rose had been blue and crumpled. On that final day of the Healing the Womb program, though, my womb was no longer sad and withdrawn.

I saw a vibrant red flower
that wanted to rise, rise, rise
snugly held
in a nest of grass
and this flower was also a cup
in which lied a pool of clear blue water
nourishing
and there was room
in that cup for more water still
and surrounding that flower-cup was a
halo of golden light
some of which poured right down into the cup
illuminating any dark spaces
and just within that halo
smaller whorls of silver light were floating
around my womb like fairies
sparks of wisdom

My womb was alive, had seen the light of day, had tasted sweetness, had felt the support of a women’s healing circle, and wanted more than ever to grow!

Today, I still look back upon my Healing the Womb experience with fondness—for all the women who shared their stories, for the tools and support I received for my healing, for being able to hold space for others’ healing, for the relationship I’ve reclaimed with my own body & emotions, and for the opportunity to help launch and make this program available to women in NYC & beyond.

Too many of us are hurting and have been convinced, in one way or another, that we simply have to endure the pain. This is not true! Our bodies know how to heal and they are constantly telling us just what they need. It’s time for us to be present, to listen, to truly take care of ourselves, and then extend that to our families, communities, and environment.

Wild Woman Dances to the Beat of My Heart

dancing to the drums At last I make it to Starwood, to festival. After a long week and long trip, I sit by the campfire and feel the call. Dancing..feel it in my body as I hear the drums. The beat resonates in my bones, in my blood, echoing in the rhythm of my beating heart. My body is tired and my soul longs to dance. I heed the call, I dance, I circle, I chant. My body is fed, my body is joyful, my body is tired. I succumb to rest, behind the drums, I sleep within the drum beat and feel as securely held by the beats as an Indian baby snugly bound in a cradle board. My body soaks in the healing vibrations of the drums as I slumber. Suddenly the rhythm wakes me, is in me. I jump up and allow its dance to manifest through me. Wild Woman emerges through my body, her body, her limbs. She drinks in the rhythm. She is hungry to dance, to laugh, to feel the drums. I watch my body move. I feel the rhythm, spirit, wildness coursing through my undulating body. Wild Woman is alive in me. Contagious wildness spreads throughout the circle, throughout the drummers, the dancers. She draws all in. Wild Joy. Uncontainable. Undefinable. Undeniable, in my body, in the flames of the fire, in my heart. I surrender to Wild Woman and am consumed, devoured..Only joy remains..

Amma Comes to NYC

New York will once again be hosting Amma during her U.S. Summer Tour. She will be here Tuesday, July 7th; Wednesday, July 8th and Thursday, July 9th. All programs will be held at the Manhattan Center, 311 W. 34th Street, New York, NY 10001. They are free of charge. Click here for more info.

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Amma holds a special and infinitely vast space in my heart. I chose the name Love as a reminder to be loving in everything that I do. Seeing Amma on her yearly visit to NYC has provided me an opportunity to be filled with unconditional loving energy and supports me in being loving throughout the rest of the year.

I first met her through an intense, muscled, wildly tattooed and big-hearted Scorpio friend of mine. I went to see her and waited for hours to get a hug from her and next thing I knew, I was hooked. The next day, I went back and received a mantra which has supported me in my healing.

She is an amazing embodiment of loving divine mother energy. I start every healing session I do by inviting her loving presence in. Meeting with her is a wonderful way of connecting to your own divine mother goddess nature. I invite you to join me and drink your fill of the loving energy that permeates the air when she is here..

You can join me Tuesday morning when she first comes to town or during her puja Thursday evening.

blissings,
Kiana Love

“As the embodiment of supreme motherhood, she welcomes every person who comes to her, listens to his or her problems, offers advice and guidance, and brings reassurance to a troubled heart.”
www.amma.org

Get Sexy with Be Wild Gardening

On Alternet I found Makenna Goodman’s  article painting a hot & heavy picture of gardening

Gardening Make Your Sex Life Better?

The moment I saw this article, I thought – Yes!

Gardening & getting in touch with your wildness, your inner wild woman through nurturing her wild ecology, can make your sex life better. And we do mean ecology because the plants, trees, and creatures, us included, are all in wild relationship.

Noelle, our Wild Musings blogger and resident ecologist, says that when you tend to plant life, you are tending to the whole biological community because we’re all connected. As an intern for a tropical forest ecology program in Costa Rica, she experienced firsthand the deep interconnections between all lifeforms. She remembers the Cecropia trees with their resident ant communities, how the trees provided nourishment for the ants while the ants in turn fiercely protected the trees. Mutual benefits, mutual pleasure – what a great analogy for both gardening and sex!

When we’re gardening and watching the wildness of the garden, it resonates with our own wildness. What’s more sexy than connecting to our inner wild woman that intrinsically knows what wild is, what sensual is? The way she feels when she digs her fingers in the dirt, the rich soil.. when she notices the scent of cinammon basil.. when she reaches down and tastes the sweet leaf of stevia or the tangy lemon of sorrel.. when she enjoys the sharp bite of spicy salad greens, nurturing herself with nature’s wild greens so that she can frolic for hours and hours… She resonates with what wildness looks and feels like when she sees plants reaching up for the sun or leaves sprawling out. She sees the undeniable wildness of a plant that refuses to be eradicated and insists on growing abundant and wild. This is sexy.

Join us for some sexy wild gardening!

wild blissings,
Kiana Love

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